Hailey told me about her southern Baptist minister father and the paddle her made for she and her sister. The paddling’s they got in her back office at the church or at home in his garage/woodshop. He made a paddle for both places. She did admit that these spankings growing up taught her to be a better person. This is why she was ok with reentering the disciplinary understanding with me. she found herself straying from those teachings of her father.